My rule had nothing to do with food, cleanliness, or sharing chores. It was a rule that would confront both of them with a harsh reality, one that I knew all too well.
I told them that if Clara was going to live in our house, she had to abide by all the customs of my family. And I wasn’t just referring to washing hands before meals or standing up when an elder entered.
I meant those traditions that my grandmother upheld with reverence, traditions from the village where I grew up. Waking up at 5 in the morning to feed the chickens. Kneading bread by hand, not with a machine. Washing carpets in the yard, on her knees, with cold water from the well, regardless of the season.
When I began to list all these “obligations,” Mihai started blinking rapidly, and Clara bit her lip.
“This is how my family operates,” I said. “And if you want to be part of it, there are no exemptions. Everyone works, everyone respects tradition. And if you don’t respect it, you leave.”
In that moment, I realized they wouldn’t last. Mihai, used to sleeping until 9 on weekends, wouldn’t lift a finger to carry buckets of cold water. Clara, with her perfectly manicured nails, wouldn’t sit in the mud to plant seedlings.
But I pressed on. I told them that every Sunday, after church, all family members work together on the homestead: chopping wood, repairing the fence, cleaning the ditch in front of the house. And that, at large meals, the women cook everything from scratch, while the men cut the meat and build the fire.
Mihai tried to keep his smile, but Clara looked ready to burst into tears.
That evening, I heard nothing more about “the second wife.” Clara left before dinner, under the pretext of having “urgent business.” Mihai tried to change the subject, but the silence between us spoke volumes.
The next morning, I woke up early, put the coffee on the stove, and looked out the window at the garden. It was quiet, as it hadn’t been in a long time.
Deep down, I knew my rule wasn’t just about traditions. It was about respect. About the fact that a family is not divided and that love is not negotiable.
Mihai learned the lesson. And I realized that sometimes, you don’t have to get angry or shout to defend your place. You just have to be smarter than the game others are trying to play.
And since then, no one has brought up the second wife again. Because they knew very well that, with me, the rules do not change.
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